Those of us who’ve grown to love the lively words that bounced from the head and fingers of Paul Curran will never be the same.
The writer from Canada has died, according to his neighbor Steve Watson.
I received this email on the contact tab from my blog:
With great sadness I have to tell you that Paul Curran has passed away. Paul passed last week.
A series of the column head shots Paul sent me since 2013 to just a month ago.
I found the email this morning. I arrived yesterday. Steve Watson was listed as the photographer in the If We Were Having Coffee Sunday column Paul had me post here on Sept. 11 after his emergency operation.
I could not find an obituary through search engines.
Paul lived in Ottawa, Ontario, Canada. He was hoping to move to Vancouver.
I first met Paul when he began commenting on my stories when I began this blog here on WordPress in March 2013. In May 2014 he told me about a time he and his buddies drove a golf cart into a pond. He sent me the photo so I could post it here. A wonderful relationship grew. I urged him to begin his own blog, but he maintained that his computer was too old and haphazard
Shortly after that, he began writing a regular Sunday Cuppa feature for willowdot21 as well as commenting frequently on more and more WordPress blogs.
An email conversation we had after a comment he had on my movie review of The Judge did not publish resulted in him accepting my invitation to write his first guest post for me. I hit publish on Mum on Oct. 19, 2014. I knew I had a special blogger on my hands, and – yes, I’ll admit it – badgered him somewhat to write more, for me and others here in BloggyVille. I never could convince him to start his own blog. He did continue to write more, here and for other special people in this community of ours. On America’s Father’s Day in 2015, I published The Chief, which I considered the bookend to Paul’s aforementioned piece on his mother, two complicated and fascinating looks at growing up and thereafter.
Afterward, he began regularly contributing to Cordelia’s Mom, Still, and my friend at that fantastic blog created a glossary of Paul’s WordPress work.
Then came a period of Paul Curran silence. After a week or so, I grew worried and put out a WordPress call. After all, Paul’s bout with cancer before all of this and subsequent kidney disease and regular dialysis appointments were common knowledge.
Fellow Canadian blogger Linda G. Hill volunteered to stop by his apartment on a trip to his home city. Bad WiFi was found to be the cause, Linda reported on her blog.
WordPress rejoiced at the news. WiFi was fixed. We got our Paul back. His Sunday column came to me, with some rockiness because of his dialysis treatment. I did not receive a column last week. Not the first time in the past several months.
Now, this news.
Sadness, yes. Much sadness.
He was smart. He was worldly. He knew a little bit – or a lot – about most things he saw chose to click upon here on WordPress. He was not shy about sharing that knowledge. Ha!
I look to the north right now and say words of praise and love for Paul Curran. You will be missed very much, good sir.
Now I humbly ask you to share this post, my attempt at a WordPress obituary. I think our community must get the word out about the loss of the man who graced so many blogs with his way with words. If you write your own post about Paul, please link it to this post and tag it Paul Curran’s Passing.
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This is, indeed, very sad news. I cannot “like” this post. It was Paul’s having been “lost and found” that made me aware of depth of caring the blogosphere. I do not spend nearly as much time here as I’d like. RIP Paul, and thank you to all who care for fellow bloggers. Thank you, Mark.
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Thank you, Fiona, for coming to the circle of caring.
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Mark, I’m so, so sorry to hear of Paul’s death. He was a wonderful guy with such love in his heart and words.
Your shock is palpable and I’m sure that he will be deeply missed by more people than we will ever know. jxx
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Yes, socialbridge, he touched so many by being there with his thoughts and words.
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Can’t get him out of my mind. He’ll definitely have a special place in my heart always. x
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We should keep Paul in our minds and hearts. You are not alone.
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We certainly will keep him in our hearts, Mark. Here’s a post I just wrote about him and losing online friends. https://wordpress.com/post/socialbridge.wordpress.com/16897
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Thanks so much for sharing your words and the link, SB.
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My pleasure, Mark. Hope you’re doing okay.
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I am dealing with the news more and more. Thank you.
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We’ve lost a valuable man and a friend in the blogging world and beyond. He will be missed. May he rest in peace.
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Yes, all of us will miss his views, Adam. Thanks for coming to share.
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Reblogged this on dobetteralways and commented:
Paul was a wise man and I had hoped to pay him a visit this December for an actual cuppa. I just hope he’s in a place of peace now.
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This is very saddening to read. Paul was an amazing man and his guest posts and comments will be greatly missed. I only wish we all could’ve gotten to interact with him more.
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I wish I would have had that chance to meet him in person, yes, dobetteralways.
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I am so sorry for our mutual loss, Mark. His Sunday posts were the height of my Sunday reading often. Such a fighter and wordsmith.
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Yes, the fighter part, so glad you mentioned that, Martha. He overcame a lot.
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May perpetual light shine on his spirit. Rest in peace Paul Curran.
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I love your wish for Paul. Thank you, Jacqueline.
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Reblogged this on I didn't have my glasses on…. and commented:
rip paul. i always enjoyed your stories, your comments and the way you always beat the odds. we will miss you –
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Reblogged this on 1EarthUnited and commented:
Fare thee well good sir, you will be missed. A masterful storyteller who’ve enriched all our lives.
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So sad. He will be missed. Thank you for letting us know. 💜
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Oh, Samara. Death kicks us you-know-where.
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Reblogged this on Anything is Possible! and commented:
He will be missed by many.
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Rest In Peace, my friend! May all your journeys on “the other side” be more wonderful than you ever imagined!
To all of Paul’s friends and loved ones, please know that life is eternal. The one we knew here in the physical will never be truly gone. He has merely changed to a different form–and all will one day be reunited.
Though you may not be able to hear or see him in the way you are used to, know that he is now closer to you than ever.
Love endures all and even surpasses the limits of physical life as we know it.
With Love,
Stargazer
❤ ❤ ❤
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Thanks for the comfort, Stargazer. ❤
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Any time, my friend.
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Thanks for joining the group mourning, Eloise.
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May he rest in peace. x
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Accept my deepest condolences, Paul, for the loss of your friend. ❤
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Thanks, Tess. We will miss Paul.
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Reblogged this on Linda G. Hill and commented:
Well, I’ve spent the majority of my time online today looking for confirmation, but I’ve come up with nothing either way. Why have I gone to such lengths? Because I don’t want to believe it.
I’m happy to have had the chance to shake Paul’s hand. A more warm and welcoming man I have never met.
Rest in peace, my friend. It was good to know you.
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A good man. A hell of a writer with incredible stories to tell. He will be missed.
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Yes, Mark. You and he had a understanding on your blog, for sure.
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Reblogged this on willowdot21 and commented:
I am so truly sad for our loss, Paul was one of those special people who made the world a better place. God Bless Paul Curran. xxx
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Mark I have just read this sad news. It has knock the wind out of my sails. We will all miss him so much. We all loved him!
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Yes, Willow, our Sundays will not be the same minus our friend Paul’s wise words. 😦 Thank you for all you did with him and for him over the years.
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I am so shocked and saddened Mark, thank you as well. We will miss him. xxx
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Oh no! Paul was one of my most dedicated commenters. So sad to hear this news. He will be missed. 😦
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Oh, Goldie, he meant so much to so many of us. I loved reading his comments on your posts, yes, I did. 😦
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Reblogged this on Drunk on Life and commented:
Just learned the sad news from Mark Bialczak. You and your words will be missed, Paul.
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Paul and I only met recently, but he always had an opened bottle of Muscadet for me. A fine person. Funny, witty, intelligent. I looked forward to his Sunday posts. He was thoughtful, and a lovely commenter. Will miss you Paul. Xx
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Thoughtful, yes, that was our Paul. Thanks, roughseas.
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I don’t know how many times I said to my husband “did you see what Paul wrote?” or too often, recently and sadly, “I haven’t seen Paul for a few days”. Thank you for letting us know Mark. And may his soul rest in peace, but with a thoughtful and entertaining tale to those listening and reading beyond us.
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Yes, MBC, he had a way to make us take note of his well-put words. And I must say thank you for placing his tale-telling now in such eternally comforting perspective.
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It’s so sad MBM. But I’m grateful his friend reached out to you so people did not worry and wonder with no way to find out how he is. Like you I’ve been searching the sites to try and find confirmation. Not that I don’t believe his friend….I just felt a need to see it. Thank you for this tribute.
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Indeed. A little bit of confirmation, I agree, MBC.
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Sorry to hear Mark. A touching tribute.
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Thank you, Marissa.
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Your tribute to him here is well done, Mark.I did not know him but I appreciate the great addition he obviously was to the community… May he rest in peace xx
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Thanks, Christy. He graced us with his thoughtfulness and kindness.
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R.I.P. – very sad news
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Thanks, Dan.
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May he rest in peace. In the cyber world, his voice will live forever.
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Thanks, Marilyn, for this perspective.
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Such sad news,Mark. I knew Paul from your blog, and from his thoughtful comments on so many others. May he rest in peace. Thanks for letting us know.
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Thanks, Van, on this sad day.
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Such sad news.
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Thank you, Merril, for adding to our group outlet.
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Oh, Mark, thank you for letting us know of this very sad news. I will share it on my blog.
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Thanks, Susan, for sharing the sad news.
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Reblogged this on The Monster in Your Closet and commented:
I loved Paul’s comments.
Though we never met face to face, I will miss him greatly.
In his last email to me, he wrote, “Sometimes we are only offered bad choices Deborah, but to refuse to choose is to loose the right to choose.”
Today I’ll make some loving choices in memory–and honor–of Paul.
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Reblogged this on Behind the White Coat and commented:
Whenever I made a post, I could count on Paul to have something to say. Most of the time, his comments were better than my posts. I am going to miss him something fierce. Rest In Peace, my friend.
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Reblogged this on Cordelia's Mom, Still and commented:
There is simply no way to express our sadness at the loss of such a great writer. Paul Curran was an online friend to many of us, bringing humor and support wherever it was needed. Rest in peace, my friend.
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Ditto and thanks for his tribute.
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RIP Paul. ❤ Hugs for you Mark. ❤
Diana xo
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Thank you, dear friend Diana. ❤
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i will miss his worldly wisdom and his never give up approach to life. thank you for letting us know, he will be missed by many.
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Yes, Beth, his cheeriness in the face of all things in life lifted me many times. I will miss that greatly.
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Reblogged this on Sue Vincent – Daily Echo.
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I started worrying again a few days ago. Appreciate you passing the news to the rest of us. (Will work on a link to here from my blog)
While we may all truck on without him, the convoy lost a real tour guide of life.
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Well said, Mouse. Very well said.
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Mine’s up, Mark.
https://philosophermouseofthehedge.wordpress.com/2016/10/08/trucking-on-down-the-road/
Paul deserves a big send off.
Would like to see other at least put up a re-blog or note with link on their blogs.
One last Sunday Morning Coffee tribute for the barrista.
Thanks for relaying the sad news.
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Bravo, Mouse. Agreed.
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Reblogged this on FiftyFourandAHalf and commented:
Such sad news to have to spread. Good-bye to my favorite MBA.
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Oh what sad, sad news. I am heartbroken to think that he won’t make it to Vancouver. That he won’t be sharing his experiences with all of us any more. That such a warm bright light is no more.
Thanks for spreading the word. I’m going to reblog to let folks who might see it there know.
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How can we not appreciate a fresh Ha!, Paul Curran-placed so perfectly, Elyse. 😦
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Yes! I was always after him to collect his stories in a book. 😪
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A project for somebody who loves him from WordPress, Elyse? ❤
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It would be. Not quite sure how to make it happen without him, but let’s think about it.
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Markbialczak@gmail.com for further correspondence in time to come, Elyse.
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Ok. And it’s on your blog. Mine is too. He didn’t guest post for me but we had lots of long stories in comments.
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We’ll strategize. I know you too blog-talked all the time.
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gosh that is so sad; he was a real addition to the community
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Yes, your presence on his Sunday columns showed how he built his part of the WP world, TanGental.
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Oh my Mark I am so sad to learn of his passing-such a colorful Chap I had grown to enjoy as well. RIP Paul Curran you’ll be missed by many. Gatorette.
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He was one of us, most certainly, Cheryl. 😦
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Reblogged this on But I Smile Anyway… and commented:
Sad news…
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So sad… RIP Paul…
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It’s a huge loss for so many of us who read Paul regularly at plenty of places, Ritu. 😦
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I always read his posts on your blog… 😦
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I know you did, Ritu.
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