I’m 57 years old today, this guy born in 1957.
It’s my Beddian Birthday.
My dear wife Karen and Ellie B aka Dogamous Pyle started the day off by presenting me with a big pile of wonderful gifts.
With our new-found enthusiasm for Cabernet Savignon since our spring bus tour excursion to the Finger Lakes wine trail, Karen wisely chose a gorgeous four-piece wine glass set and three bottles of vino for us to savor. One is from Australia, one is from Argentina, and one is from California. Score.
I opened many others, too, socks to warm my tootsies and shaving lotion to soothe my neck and gift cards to better my golf game and coffee drinking and even more goodies.
Later we’re driving to meet the kids for dinner at the best buffet spread ever at Turning Stone Resort and Casino.
On Facebook, friends from all over the world have pitched in with song videos and great messages. Thank you all.
And didn’t we know that Rachel Carrera would put The Head back in play on his 57th birthday?
What do you want for your birthday?


Happy birthday, brother! Look at you, all 57 and whatnot. So close to Christmas. Did you feel gypped as a kid? My daughter’s is the 20th. She’s not wild about the idea. I blame her mother’s gestation period. She could have held out until spring. Tonight I’ll toast your birthday with a glass of dinner wine.
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I never felt gypped as a kid. My family always made sure wrap gifts, give me a cake, sing … the whole nine yards. My head is still sufficiently big as a result. I hope your daughter realizes that she’s special no matter the day she was born. I’m sure you and your wife treat her A-OK. Thanks for your wishes, brother!
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Oh man! That’s what I get for not checking in. I missed your bday!! The horror!!!!!!! I hope you had a most wonderful day. Have you finished all the bottles yet? LOL. Nice to get new wine glasses too. 🙂
Here is a special song we sing to family members on their birthdays:
“Feliz, feliz en tu dia. Amiguito que Dios te bendiga. Que reine la paz en tu día, y que cumplas muchos mas.” Feliz Cumpleanos, Mr. B! 🙂
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I will gladly accept a day late for being serenaded with your famiy song, Mrs. B. Muchas gracias, mi amiga. I am honored to nearly speechless. ❤
And, back to real life, hey, wiseguy, no we did not drink all the wine yesterday!
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Happy Birthday! It looks as though your dear wife treats you right.
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Yes, Snoozer, my dear wife indeed treats me very right. Thank you for your well-wishes, my friend.
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Happy Birthday Mark!
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Thanks so much, Mer!
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Spice it up on your birthday, Mr Poblano!
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Thanks so much, WAWWP. Glad to see you again!
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Wishing you a fannnnnnnnnntastic birthday!
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Thanks, Apple Pie. Feeling better today, I hope. It’s the Awards/Voice night for you!
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Day four of three weeks of new antibiotic. Really weak and tired. He waited several weeks to switch antibiotics. Didn’t do me any favors there.
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That’s not good work RX-wise. Ugh, Apple Pie.
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Dear Mark, hope you did some serious damage to the cab stockpiles yesterday. Happy Birthday and best wishes for your best year ever!
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Karen and I may have had one glass each when we got back from dinner with the kids, Barb. 🙂 It was a great birthday! Thanks so much. Onto a great year, indeed.
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Happy B(elated) BB, Mark B! Glad you got everything you wanted and then some. Sounds like the perfect day. And my but does that wine look good.
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Thanks, Liz. I knew you’d show up. 🙂 It was a great day. Dinner was outstanding. Karen and I finished up an opened bottle when we got home. The new stuff will happen for the holidays, I betcha!
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Happy Birthday my friend!! God bless you ❤
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Thanks so much, Leyla. I appreciate it!
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Happy birthday! I still have a loooong way to go to reach my 75th in 2050…
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Yes, now since you have so long to plan, I expect really big things for your Beddian Birthday Bash. Thanks, Bill. I had a great day.
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Mark, wishing you a wonderful birthday (a bit late) and a fantastic year full of fun and dreams fulfilled. So glad to have met you! 🙂
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Thank you very much, Ermine. I am very glad to have you in my life now. We Syracuse bloggers and writers are a hardy and hearty group and need to meet in the real world as we did in 2014!
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ps – l love your title and rachel’s head shot too )
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Thanks so much, Beth. And even on my big BBB I can write a Head line. ba-da-boom.
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Happy birthday!
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Thank you, Leigh. Peace.
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HAPPY BEDDIAN BIRTHDAY WONDERFUL FRIEND MARK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THE WORLD IS 57 TIMES BETTER FOR HAVING YOU IN IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ❤
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Thanks so much, Colleen. I know you are serious when you are all caps and exclamation points my dear friend. ❤
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Happy Birthday Mark! The wine sounds good. Enjoy! My Beddian Birthday would have a while back!
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Happy belated Beddian Birthday! Thanks for your well wishes, Deborah. 🙂
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Happy Beddian Birthday Mark. I have a b’day coming up in 12 days, but very few people have ever given me gifts because of the lousy timing. So this year I expect the same thing I got last year, and every year before — nothing. Not sure I ever had a Beddian birthday, or if I did, had no idea what it was. But since you never miss what you’ve never had—-
Have a happy rest of the day.
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Thanks Angie. Happy Birthday Dec. 26, my friend. You deserve the gift of good friendship, in the very least. 🙂
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Thanks Mark. And I am rich in friends, so that is one gift I receive every day of the year.
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happy bb birthday, my friend. what a wonderful way to start your special day, and i’m hoping you continue the celebration for a long time. enjoy!
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I continued through salad, soup, peel n eat shrimp, pot stickers, noodles, roast beef, ham, no sugar apple pie topped with no sugar frozen yogurt. Yes, I did! Thanks, Beth!
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Handled like a pro, mark )
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And I am not surprised that you are awash in Happy Birthday wishes. You are such a nice person, Mark, that people feel they know you and have a friend in you, I’m sure. So thanks for the gift of your kind presence on the blogosphere and many, many wishes for a Happy Birthday. I’m 57 for another week or two…..
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Happy 57 in another week or two, my peer Barbara, many of the ways you just stated. Thank you, my friend. I appreciate your kind wishes very much.
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I hope you win big on the slots, old man!
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Hahahahaha. Thanks, young lady. 🙂
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Happy Beddian Birthday! So you are a Christmas baby, too! Enjoy your fabulous wine!
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December for you, too, alas, kind lass? Thanks so much, Ali!
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I’m a spring chicken myself, but all my children have birthdays in November or December. My best Christmas presents!
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That is awesome, gifts of the kiddies, Ali. Enjoy the holidays right on through!
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And you too!
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happy birthday mark – have a great day and a great year ahead.
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Thanks so much, Rachel. I so much appreciate your kind words, my London friend. 🙂
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Mark … Your lovely wife, Karen, made an excellent choice. Lucky you … hitting the Finger Lakes wine trail. We only were able to get to one when we returned from the Watkins Glen State Park to our motel, Showboat. It sounds like you have an exciting day planned. Dave and I wish you the very best birthday. 😉
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Thanks so much, Judy and Dave. Yes, we took a bus tour that stopped at five places. It was quite the day then. And so was today. 🙂
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Wishing you a very happy birthday and sending you many thanks for the most enjoyable blogs that you write.
Enjoy your day!
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Thank you so much for your wishes. And thank your for your always interesting poems!
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Thank you too and you’re very welcome. I’m so pleased you enjoy them:-)
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Happy birthday Mark! I am glad everyone made this a special day for you! Cheers to you!
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Thanks so much, Colleen. I’m pulling away from you now, my friend? For a little bit, at least. 🙂
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I will be 57 on April 18th… In 2016 I will be 58, born in 1958, my Beddian Birthday. Have a great time tonight at dinner. I am having a glass of wine (Moscato) to toast you this evening! 🙂
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I’m glad you are in the next class of Beddian Birthdays, Colleen. It is a special feeling, the once-in-a-lifetime match of birth year and age.
Thanks for the wishes and the wine toast. Dinner was fantastic. 🙂
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Happy Birthday, Mark!
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That you, Austin. I’m pulling away from you, young guy. 🙂
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So true… 🙂
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What I want for my birthday is whatever I don’t get off my Christmas list.
Happy Birthday, my friend! 😀
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Good birthday present wish, Sheena. Thank you. my friend. 🙂
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I said it on FB and I’ll say it again…Happy Birthday!
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Thanks on FB and double thanks here, Marissa. I appreciate your wishes. 🙂
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Happy Birthday for Mark – wish him always the best!
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Thank you mihrank!
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Happy Birthday Mark. If you send me your email address I send you a gift of one of my songs.
Leslie
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My email is on my contact page, Leslie. Thanks so much!
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Do you like jazz?
Leslie
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I indeed like jazz, Leslie.
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Did you like the song I sent you?
Leslie
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Happy B – Birthday Mark! When I glanced at your post title I first saw “…for wine and posies”. Ha! I was gonna say – you’re far too young to be pushing up posies yet ! 😀
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Poses. No ‘i’ yet, Paul, that I’ve heard. 🙂
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Happy Birthday Mark!
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Thanks so much, Norm.
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Awe happy birthday xx
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Thanks so much, Justine. 🙂
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did you have a great time? x
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I had a wonderful birthday dinner. I helped myself to five courses at the buffet as my dear wife Karen, my daughter Elisabeth and her boyfriend George watched in amazement. No, wait, they were helping themselves to the great food, too!
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wow 5 courses? woweee did you end up on the floor afterwards? lol x
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Karen wheeled me into the car and drove home! 🙂 xxoo
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Lol sounds good x
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Happy Birthday Mark. Enjoy your wine 🙂
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Thank you, Amber. Indeed. 🙂
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Party Time, Its my birthday also.
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Happy Birthday, Sandy! Enjoy the big day!
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Happy Beddian Birthday, beloved birthday boy Bialczak!
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Thank you so much the supremely literate illerative Ann Koplow!
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Happy Birthday Mark! Hope its glorious.
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Thanks so much. Very glorious so far, Jacke. 🙂
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Happy birthday, Mark. I remember being 57 once, but it wasn’t a Beddian Birthday. That happened to me 11 years earlier and I didn’t celebrate my Beddian birthday because I didn’t know what a beddian birthday was. I’d never heard of it. But now that I know what it is, I want to turn back time and celebrate it. Where is Cher when you need her, dammit?
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She was on your post the other day, Doobster. I’m waiting for you to reference her song with the computer autotune hitch in her voice. “Believe,” I believe, so believe it when I say I believe you write like you’re 47 and still have your Beddian Birthday ahead of you, my friend. Thanks for the wishes, by the way. 🙂
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Happy Birthday!
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Thanks, Thorton!
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Happy Birthday to you, Mark!!! I’m so thrilled to read the excitement in your words. You have been spoiled rotten by your loving family, and it is just as it should be done. You deserve every wonderful comment you get and as many well wishing hugs as this world can give you. I’m thrilled to be a part of your celebrations. Enjoy the rest of your big day, my friend. Thousands of birthday hugs to you from your friend, Audrey, if we can fit them in to your busy day!
Happy Birthday to you
Happy Birthday to you
Happy Birthday, dear Chum chum chummy chum
Happy Birthday toooo youuuuuuu!!!!!!
Love you!
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I thank you so much, dear friend Audrey, Aud, Red, from Houston via the great and vast plains of America. You sing with the bounce of your poetry! 🙂
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*blush* Enjoy your day, Handsome!
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Happy Birthday Mark – nice to read about so good start. Cabernet Sauvignon is a good choice 😀
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Thank you very much, Irene! Have a great rest of your Sunday in Spain, my friend!
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY BIRTHDAY BOY!! You got a LOT of loot! Very nice 😀 What I want for my birthday? Two things: I want my cat to come back home and I want to move to Phoenix. 😀 That’s all!
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I want your cat to come home, PJ. I’m wishing hard. The Phoenix wish is up to you. Thanks, my friend. 🙂
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No, the Phoenix wish is up to my home being sold. 😀
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I wish for PJ’s home to be sold, after her cat returns to it!
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Awww, thank you Mark! That is sweet!
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Rachel, this “Head” shot (pun intended) is perfect!
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Happy Birthday!!
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Thank you, Wormy!
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Wishing you the happiest birthday ever!
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Thanks, Mimi!
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Happy birthday, Mark!
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Thanks so much, Hollie!
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Happy Birthday Mark. Fifty seven. Congrats. I think Cab is an excellent choice for the more mature birthdays. Great selfie.
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Thanks, Benson! I am loving the mature Cab!
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Happy Birthday to you Mark! ❤
Diana xo
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Thank you, Diana. It’s a great one so far. ❤
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Happy Happy Day!!!!!
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Thanks so much, Cate. So far, picture perfect. 🙂
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Happy Birthday, dear Mark! We are so happy to know you and enjoy your Beddian Birthday… Enjoy your rest of this year and the happiest in the new year, too. I envy the pile of gifts… I received two for my 59th last month!
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I am having a great Beddian so far, Robin. Thanks so much. Hey, your next one is very special, you know? Round numbers. 🙂
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Mark, you are a delight! Happy beddian birthday to ya!
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Thanks so much, Kate, the charmer from just north of Charm City! 🙂
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