The Christmas gift question: Hide or entice?

My dear wife Karen can see exactly what awaits her come Christmas morning.

My dear wife Karen can see exactly what awaits her come Christmas morning.

‘Tis three days before Christmas

And all through the house

My dear wife Karen need not scurry

For once wrapped, I place all her presents in full sight

Does that make me a louse?

OK, enough with the prose. There is a reason you will not find poetry as a category or a tag on this here blog of mine.

Small house. Full closets Front porch tree this year.

And so Karen’s gifts sit jammed between my dresser and the TV stand. You bet, she’s curious. “I think I know what that one is,” she said, pointing at one distinctively shaped gift. I laughed. I uphold certain traditions, so there just might be several more presents in the mountain that will be familiar once the unwrapping commences.

It will be a happy time nevertheless come Christmas morn. We both love giving as much as receiving. Maybe even more.

My gifts, by the way, are nowhere to be seen right now. Karen has the bigger of our two clothes closets. That’s just a guess. I did not search.

The fact is, if I had more space available for hiding said gifts somewhere – no, not the trunk of my car, I thought about that but I don’t want them bumping around in the cold — Karen’s presents would be out of sight, too.

What’s the place-the-gift-before-the-big-day tradition in your house? Hide them or stack them proudly under the tree? Do you open them on Christmas Eve or Christmas morning?

32 thoughts on “The Christmas gift question: Hide or entice?

  1. We would always have SOME under the tree in the weeks leading up to Christmas but there would appear overnight an arse-load of additional presents to be opened… it was magical and now I’m feeling nostalgic.
    My boyfriend and I have both wrapped each other’s gifts and placed them under the tree for our first Christmas… but I might have to reignite my old traditions if/when he puts a ring on it.

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  2. Growing up we always had a big Christmas Eve where all family members would be together and we would exchange gifts to one another. That night, Santa came, and his gifts were waiting under the tree for us in the morning.

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    • My daughter and boyfriend are visiting this Christmas Eve, so we will be doing that portion of the present-giving that night, and Karen and I will distribute Santa’s goodies to each other on Christmas morn. Thanks, PJ, and Merry Christmas.

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  3. we do family and friends presents on christmas eve and santa does not leave his things for us to open christmas morning until we are asleep of course! i am a horrible peeker, and get so excited about gifts that my family has taken to hiding things from me, and like you and karen, i love to give gifts even better than to receive them.

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  4. Some are hidden, some under the tree – Steve and I have bought each other a joint gift this year so I may get the children to wrap it!
    We open stockings first thing Christmas day but all other gifts wait till after church.
    My mum once hid my sisters gift in plain site – then forgot all about it – till about February! It was right there in my mums room but she got so used to seeing it that that’s where it stayed.

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  5. None of mine are wrapped, and probably won’t be. All out in the open, and family helped me make some of them without really knowing it for sure. I’m not that great at keeping secrets anyway. Kids tell me never try to play poker. Biggest problem is how to get to everything because it’s all scattered in different areas of apartment and I can’t even get to some of the areas now. We always celebrate on Dec. 26, because I was unlucky enough to be born a couple of hours late for my first Christmas. I think my mom is still mad at me for spoiling her day that year.

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  6. Usually under the tree, but no gifts this year. Hubby wanted to go buy me a gift yesterday, but I insisted on paying the bills. I told him, “Electricity is a gift” lol

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  7. I do a really lame, perfunctory attempt to hide them (often in plain sight), but my loved ones always are (1) distracted (2) kind, or/or (3) smart enough not to pry. Thanks for this great post, Mark!

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  8. Traditionally we hide, and open them Christmas morning. But this year my husband and I did not buy any gifts for each other. Yet our house is over run with gifts and wrapping and ‘stuff’. All to be hauled to other locations. Technically I think we are a suburb of the North Pole. It’s the most fun we’ve had. 🙂

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  9. Mine are piled next to me. As far as I know, neither my sister nor my mom have inspected them. But I can’t say for sure given that I’m at work all day when they’re here.

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