We’re back from our trip to Long Island for the services for my middle sister Frannie.
She passed away at the age of 51 last week, sending shock and sadness through her husband Jack, my little sister Dory and myself and our beloveds, and everybody else who she touched through those years on our planet.
So many people, we saw Sunday in the pretty funeral chapel in her neighborhood.
They told us all, saying hello to me again if I knew them, allowing me to introduce my dear wife Karen and daughter Elisbeth if they hadn’t met. They hugged me and shared their condolences even if this was the first time we’d ever crossed paths.
I saw neighbors who lived on our streets in Levittown and Stony Brook when we were growing up, and folks from Jack and Fran’s life and Dory and her husband Jim’s life, all with stories about Frannie’s way with them.
Dory and Frannie at her Confirmation.
Thank you all for sharing these memories.
I know you made it better for Jack during these hours, of most importance.
I’ll carry your thoughts forever.
Jack’s friends started a Go Fund Me page.
Mark Bialczak 
Sorry to hear about Frannie. From the guy at 10 Redwing lane.
You are a great writer Mark. Sorry we lost touch so many years ago.
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Yes, it is a sad happening in our lives, John. She was way too young.
I am glad to hear from you here, old neighbor and friend. Yes, the years went sailing past, did they not? Thank you for your kind words.
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A fitting send off for a woman who so many loved. My condolences Mark.
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Thanks, Paul. It was great to see the levels of love for Frannie.
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So sorry for your loss Mark. Sounds like it was a lovely service and day.
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Thanks so much, Leigh. It was as lovely as Frannie deserved. Very lovely, indeed.
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Very young. I’m sorry such a loss has touched your family.
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Thanks for your kind thoughts, Annie. I hope you are well at the library.
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It’s a blessing to have many supportive friends at times like this. Best wishes to your family.
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Yes, Scott. Everybody in the circle is cushioning the blow. Thank you, good sir.
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I’m so sorry to hear. She was taken too soon.
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Thanks, Marissa. She sure was.
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Hugs, Mark.
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Thanks so much, CM. I appreciate your friendship.
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Hugs and love Mark. ❤ ❤ ❤
Diana xo
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Thanks, Diana. Your words mean much. ❤
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I’ve been thinking about you and your family, Mr. B!! May time and cherished memories ease your sadness. xoxoxo
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Thanks so much, Mrs. B and Mr. B. Holy cow, life hits us, does it not, my friends?
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Yes, and boy does it hurt! ❤️❤️😔
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I am so sorry to hear of your sister’s passing, Mark. ❤️ You and you family are in my thoughts and prayers, my friend. ❤️❤️❤️
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Thanks so much, Colleen. Your friendship means a lot to me. ❤
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Same here, Mark. The thought your loss makes me sad. Hugs to you, my friend.
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I feel the love from Colorado, Colleen. Thank you.
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A short and touching tribute, Mark! Your beautiful sister, Frannie lives in your heart now. Sending you hugs and peace. (ŐωŐ人)
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Thanks so much, my purring friend Patricia.
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I’s never easy, Mark, but it is so comforting to know that they were loved, within and outside of family.💕
I have a younger sister named Fran. We don’t talk often enough. Hugs to you and your family.
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Wow, another younger sis Fran. You and I have parallels in our lives, Van. Indeed. Thanks for the hugs, my friend. Back at you. ❤
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i’m glad that you were all together to celebrate her life and mourn her passing. hugs –
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Thanks, Beth. We needed to be right there. Thanks for the hugs, my dear. ❤
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Sorry for your loss. Hope it went ok. Sometimes the love and affection, reunions too, help us on our way of grieving for the loss of our family.
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It was a needed step in the process, for sure, rough seas. Thank you for your kindness.
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A sad day for you. Gatorette
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It was in the overall scheme, Gatorette, but there was laughter and joy for the great memories of Frannie, too. ❤
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