The plan was made months ago, when my blogging friend from New Zealand contacted me through Twitter and told me that she and her husband were coming to America again.
I’d been enjoying her interesting takes on the world as Living Like Mabel for a good, long while, appreciating her humor, rooting for her to get through her programs at the university, knowing what a good photographer she was, chuckling at the by-play with her seemingly shy and always industrious husband, Calvin.
Their route could come through Syracuse because they wanted so see Niagara Falls on the way to the Big Apple. Would I care to meet for lunch?
You betcha.
Mabel trusted me enough through following my work here about my dear wife Karen and Ellie B aka Dogamous Pyle to drop the dime that she wasn’t really Mabel and Calvin wasn’t really Calvin. Somebody had stalked her when she had her first blog. And, her husband was tired of folks recognizing him in public and calling him by her pet nickname, too.
I won’t tell their real names, but I will gladly reveal that the too-short time we spent at a table at Cafe at 47 in the Village of Liverpool on the Wednesday before Thanksgiving was delightful.
I ran over from my job at the Liverpool Public Library, and my blogging friend Mabel greeted me outside the door with a big hug and huge smile on her face. Her husband waited inside, and a waitress brought them two mugs of coffee as I ordered a late breakfast sandwich at the counter.
We talked of their drive east from California, and how much they were enjoying this, their fourth trip to the U.S. They filled me in on life in their homeland. They were disappointed my wife could not make it, at the doctor to get her fractured wrist checked. We talked fast. Time was too short. I was on meal break.
She gave me gifts for Karen and I, wonderful pens and key chains. Beautiful pieces from New Zealand. Karen’s key to our front door is already on hers. My pen is in my work bag.
We are Facebook friends. And Twitter and Instagram, through her real name, all.
Real friends in the real world.
Mabel and Calvin here.
Off they went, to the Macy’s Thanksgiving’s Day Parade.
If you use your real name on your blog, have you ever wished you didn’t, and why? If you use a pseudonym, how did you come up with it? If you were to come up with a pseudonym, what would it be?
I love meeting my bloggy friends! It’s always been a pleasant experience. I put my name in the About Me section, so it’s no secret! (And neither is my middle name, thanks Mark lol!)
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I think your first and middle names go so well together, Kathryn Grace! 😉 Now I realize you live in the mountains on the other side of our continent, though. 😦
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Yep, that is the truth! Woke up to a nice hard freeze this morning. 🙂
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Brrrrrr. Stay warm, my friend.
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Thank you Mark!
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One day Mark we just might get to meet! London is a great place to visit 🙂
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And so is Liverpool (NY), Rachel. Hey, I get your point, dear Rachel. We have our passports. ❤
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This is so cool, Mark! I hope to meet some of my bloggy friends in future too. ☆(❁‿❁)☆
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I would love to meet you, Patricia, but I think there are many miles between our families. 😮
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That’s right, Mark! It’s approximately 9000 miles. (*‿*✿)
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Did you walk it off, Patricia? 😉
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Not at all, Mark! It’s in my bucket list to meet you, CookieCakes and a bloggy friend in Colorado.
~ヾ(^∇^)
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And I, you, Patricia. 🙂
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Although, I am the Gatorette alright and “Cheffie Cooks” is a blog name by which my family always teases me well…the rest you decide!? Hahaha! I assure you I am real though. Glad you got to meet up with them whatever their names are for real…Have a great weekend Terp!
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You have a great weekend too, Gatorette, my real-deal friend!
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Ok Mark you too!!!
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Nuts. If I had known Mabel and Calvin before reading your post today, I could have arranged to meet them here – only 20 minutes from Niagara Falls! I love meeting blogging friends – and I trust that sooner or later, I will manage to meet you and Karen. I’m very much looking forward to that. (PS: In case you don’t know, Cordelia’s Mom a/k/a CookieCakes is not my real name, either. 🙂 )
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I do know your real name, CM, and have yet to spill the beans in public. I won’t, even after we at least meet in real life. ❤
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I know, Mark. Quite a few of my blogging friends know my real name, some even know where I live! I just felt like being silly this morning.
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🙂
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How neat that you all were able to meet up, even if only for a short time. Meeting other blog friends has been a true pleasure the few times I’ve had the opportunity.
I suspect most people know that ‘Violet’ isn’t my real name – and since my email address has my name in it, it’s not hard to find (though, that isn’t really my ‘real name’ either, though I do go by it), but I don’t like it when people get too familiar and use it on my blog in comments.
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Thus I shall continue to call you Violet, Violet. ❤
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I love meeting blogging friends in person, Mark, as you know!
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As you know, Ann, I missed seeing you this year. ❤
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i think this is great! as you know, i love meeting my bloggy friends in the real world ) i think that you and karen should become the official syracuse area blog ambassadors.
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I wouldn’t mind that position, Beth, but I don’t know where to send my application. Haha.
Yes, it works out well for me, this blog world meets real world extension. ❤
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