Every year in August, my dear wife Karen packs her bags and says see ya.
Almost a decade ago, her great friend at work, Chris, invited her to join a trip to Alexandria Bay for a weekend, an annual getaway in which a group of women who’ve known each other since high school age tell their significants to stay right where they are and go away on their own to have a good time.
I’ve come to call it the girls getaway.
Georgia and Cathy live in the Syracuse area, too, and so they’ve come to become my friends as well. Chris? I worked with her and Karen and we were friends before all this unfolded. Others who don’t live around here take part.
Chris since retired, and winters in Florida. Kathy as well. Still, I know husbands Dave and Bruce and Bert. Bert, in fact, we hired to put down our new pergo floor.
Once in a while, we all get together. Georgia summoned us this past weekend for a picnic at Jamesville Beach Park, a jewel some seven miles southeast of Syracuse.
Yes, I thought. A chance to show you three of the girls from the getaway.
We arrived at noon for the party, an 11 a.m. to ??? affair.
Georgia and her family had secured a great spot, a caravan of picnic tables in the shade. Two park-provided grills were at the ready. It was close to the building that housed restrooms. A sand volleyball court and dirt softball field were adjacent, the sandy beach just yonder. Lovely all the way around.
Georgia’s daughter up from North Carolina and her husband had brought their two darling new rescue puppies, Lucy and Bailey. They’re Chugs. That’s a mixture of chihuaha and pug. Bailey loved to jump up on me when I sat near them. And I loved to sit near them. Lucy was the one who wore a pink bow.
Georgia had proclaimed it a bring-a-dish-to-pass affair, and two tables were packed with food. Karen had made a ton of her delicious potato salad, and we’d pulled through KFC and purchased a bucket as the last thing before jumping on the highway. There were burgers and hot dogs off those grills. Tomato pies, a pizza-alternative specialty down from Utica way. Veggie and fruit trays galore. I felt stuffed the whole day.
Chris is also keeper of the scrapbooks, and she pulled them out so the girls could relive the magic. Chris has a great scrapbooking sense of humor. I loved looking over their shoulders. I’d felt like I’d been there from listening to Karen’s stories every year upon her return.
I had a fine time catching up with Bert and Bruce, too. Bert plays guitar and is a huge music lover. He noted that an old friend from his native hometown of Cortland, Jim Catalano, has started writing his music column for the Ithaca Journal again. Jim and I know each other from that craft for decades. Bruce recently became a fan of The Newsroom, catching up on HBO. I bit my tongue when he said he’s yet to watch the final and too-short season three. Bruce mentioned that we should get together come August when our girls are getting away to the Outer Banks of North Carolina.
Karen and I walked the grounds. We all hung out until the voice over the loudspeaker said the joint was closing at 6 p.m. We all started packing up around 5:30, and helped each other with our stuff to the cars in the parking lot until the space was empty and nearby parties had whisked away all our tables to their caravans. The first neighbors told us that the beach on the reservoir closed at 6, with the lifeguards jumping off their chairs, but the picnic area remained open. We were all ready to leave anyway. Long and happy day.
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Where is your favorite place to swim, and why? What’s your bring-plate to a potluck picnic, and why? What’s your favorite photo, and why?
Wonderful pictures, dear friend 🙂 Happy Weekend
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Happy weekend, Leyla. Enjoy!
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Mark … Your great photos stir beautiful memories. Jamesville Beach was a favorite swimming hole for our girls and me when they were young. Beautiful place. And that layout of scrumptious food … hmmmm! Now, I’m hungry. 😉
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Thanks, Judy! You were smart to bring the girls to this great spot when they were young. It’s so lovely.
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I bet Ellie was jealous when you got home and told her other dogs were there. 😉 It looks like a really fun picnic and I love the scrapbooks!
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Ellie B had her nose in a snoot, for sure, Rachel. ❤ It was a fun day, and Chris is a great scrapbooker. I bet you are as well.
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Your photos are posters for summer! Food, fun, water…and an adult beverage (or two!)
I love the warmth your pictures and words convey. I hope you are having a wonderful July xo
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We are having a very good one, Michelle. We’re getting set now for our first-ever excursion to Colorado for MDW Karen’s family reunion the end of next week. Rocky Mountains, here we come! That’s a way to wrap up July. Thanks for coming over here, my friend. ❤
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COLORADO!! Woo! Hoo! When are you there and where are you going? I’ve been working in that state for almost 8 years and absolutely love it! Every inch of it! I can’t wait for you to experience it, too. Have a fantastic time (I’ll be there in August). xo
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Dang, we won’t cross paths. We’ll be in Estes Park, July 23 to July 28. Karen’s siblings and nieces and nephews are coming in from all over the south and west. Sibs from Alaska, Texas, California and Washington state. Several of them have been to Colorado previously. I have only met one of her sisters and one niece so far. Holy cow, right?!
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Estes Park is gorgeous! A fantastic representation of that beautiful state. If you happen to be driving through Kansas, please don’t judge the terrain by what you see on I-70…same goes for Eastern Colorado. We are more an off-the-beaten-path type of folk and that’s where the beauty lies. That said, I have a feeling you already knew that 🙂
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I love you sticking up for your state, Michelle. ❤ We're flying in to Denver, and I'm unsure where our driving tours will take us, other than I'm ringleading a trip to see the Rockies vs. the Reds.
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this looks so fun for everyone and you guys are lucky you were invited to join in! i like to be by the water most anywhere, something about it –
my go-to is usually a dessert of some sort and mg is a pasta salad making guy. we’re easy )
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Dessert and pasta-salad. Great combo, you two. 🙂 Water-side is really great, yes, indeed, Beth.
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I have 3 favorites. First the girls with your pretty Karen. ♡♡ For you both.
Next, the moth or butterfly on the red, white and blue tablecloth or napkin. I think this could have a quote and make a great short post.
Last but not least, for some reason I love food blogs, so your delicious combination plate caught my eye, Mark.
I am far behind so need to quit and come back for reading all missed posts 🙂
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Thanks, Robin! You have a great eye. 🙂
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Again. The good life MBM. WHere ever you are, it is. I admire you and DWK for enjoying it so well. ❤
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Thank you, MBC. We go we are invited, and hunt out the festivals. And games. And concerts. 😉
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Mark it looks like the perfect place for a potluck. I usually bring German potato salad to potlucks and my fav place to swim?? I love the ocean anywhere tropical! ❤
Diana xo
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Tropical ocean is one I can stand in up to my waist, Diana! 🙂 German potato salad sounds fabulous, too. ❤
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Looks like fun.
Happy Bastille Day, mon ami! 🙂
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Yes, Austin, Happy All-Star Day, my friend!
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Is that what Bastille Day translates to from the French? 🙂
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Just this year, I think. 🙂
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These are great pics. The potato salad with paprika makes me wish I could reach in and grab it. I love Chris’s expression up top; like Lucie and Bailey made a no-no, and she is horrified.
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Chris can be a corker. Love her to death, Kerbey, and this expression is so her. When we worked together and the three of us would go to lunch together, she’d have me in stitches.
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No fair! Food pics:). I’ve not had fried chicken in a looong time and you’ve just given me a craving for it like you wouldn’t believe. Looks delicious and fun!
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Treat yourself to a drumstick, Kay. I think you deserve it. 🙂 You work so hard, and you’re in great shape.
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I just might do that, Mr. B!
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It’s unique and special that you can have a sandy beach, water, grass and shade trees, all together. Lovely. I enjoy potlucks, find so many authentic recipes that way. I make a mean redskin potato salad, with a touch of bacon.
And…about those girls’ getaways…I’ve done that often, it is re-energizing. But, try not to ask what we talk about…better left alone. ☺
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Yeah, I don’t dig too deep there, Van, accept what is offered. 🙂
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Those are the cutest dogs! Looks like a nice day! 😉
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I of course fell in love with the dogs, Holley, causing a bit of a sniff fest from Ellie B upon return home. It was a really nice day, thank you. 😉
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Cute dogs ruin me saying, “No dogs kids.” Cuz then the kids know that I kinda like dogs. They smell my weakness. Sort of like the cute dogs. 🙂
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Uh-oh. That could be walking and feeding forevermore, Holley. But if you love dogs, it could also be a treat every time the pooch gives you that lovey-dovey attention!
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Well, right now. We’re not home enough on a regular basis – working and stuff. 🙂 And the boyfriend does not like dogs. I think he does secretly like one dog that already belongs to someone. 🙂
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Yes, not being home enough would not be fair to the pooch. Understood.
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Right. We have a fish. There have been talks of a cat. We need more self-sufficient pets. 🙂 Sea Monkeys. lol
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Sea monkeys would flip for you. Haha.
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lol. 🙂
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Looks like a lot of fun!
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It’s a really neat spot, PJ! 🙂
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Great summer fun. What a pretty place to relax.
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It’s very scenic! Thanks, Dora. 🙂
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Looks like a good time. I got a hankerin for that plate…That’s my fave for photos. The Chugs are adorable, but I love bbq or picnic food 🙂
I usually get requests for a certain dish, potato salad or Israeli salad usually.
I prefer lake or sea swimming, but I’ll swim in a pool, too. I really enjoy swimming.
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I now will always remember that you are a swimmer, Joey. Happy in the water for you! Cool. I much prefer pools to any natural body because I can pick the depth I venture. And avoid fish, stingy and bitey both. And sharp crap on the bottom with my tender feet. 🙂
I loved that picnic food, obviously. I don’t eat that much portion-wise anymore, but made an exception this fine day. Good grief, I felt logey because of it. I managed to walk the water line with MDW Karen regardless. I think I would really like to try your Israeli salad because I’ve never! Thanks for pitching in your way, as always, my friend.
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Oh wow, with my cooking skills I fear anything potluck. Do you know I once had to bring in a dish that represented our ethnicity to once of my kids schools so I got an apple pie that I just had to heat up and I burnt it (is that right, burnt vs. burned???…anyway). Yeah, pretty bad.
I like the turtle.
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I love that you picked an apple pie to rep your ethnicity, Marissa, and that you proceeded to burn it. (See how I trickily wrote my way to the present tense so I could avoid the burned/burnt issue?) ❤
The turtle was perfect for this Maryland Terp and his iPhone 6, I thought. 😉
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Well, there is such a mix in there, and then all the ancestors have been in America burning apple pies since the beginning of time!!
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Ha! Good one, Marissa. Let’s put some ice cream on it and serve it up a la mode. ❤
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Sounds good to me.
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Good for Karen to get out (alone) and have some fun with friends…I love our inground pool! I love the Atlantic Ocean at my back yard! I love staying home! We are on our way back from Cumberland Island, Georgia on the Inrtracoastal waterway in our boat and I miss my “five”. The Gatorette and Mr. Gators
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Good hearing that you are safely making your way south in the Intercoastal, Gatorette. Your “five” await mama and papa. ❤
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Terp it is the INTRA coastal a 3,000 mile(s) of waterway between Gulf and Atlantic-Huge water system. Not Inter! The Gatorette. FYI nautical over and out!
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Oops. I’ve been on it, too, in trip to Mytrle Beach, S.C 🙂
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It’s a huge expanse of water and fun too!!!
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What a fantastic gathering, Mr. B! Good location, good friends and good food. What more could a person ask for? Mrs. B is lucky to have such great girlfriends – I don’t know what I would do without mine. 🙂
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I’m glad you have the girls support network going on as well, Maria. That makes for a happier Mrs. B. ❤
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It looks so nice there!!! So green. So much water. My favorite food to bring to a potluck is Banana-Chocolate Chip Muffins. Why – they are portable, scrumptious and good enough to be eaten for desert. I think my favorite picture is the one of the butterfly, I really like the combination of colors.
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I know I give you watered-by-nature envy with my photos, S.D. Sorry. Your muffins sound delish. Yum. Yes, I was quite happy to catch the Monarch on that tablecloth. 🙂
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It’s a great photo!!!! I’ve been watching this show put out by BBC called the “Human Planet” – beautifully done – but they had an episode on people that live In the desert, and how most of their days are consumed by the thought of and the search for water. I can really relate. But I heard on the Agricultural Radio Show (that’s my alarm in the morning) that we have an El Nino building strength – which is supposed to bring tons of rain this winter. Fingers crossed!!!!!
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I raise a toast of my tap water in a glass sitting on the table right next to me here to the building El Nino, S.D. Please please please bring the liquid relief you need on our left coast. ❤
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Thanks Mark!!!!!
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Another beautiful summer day in CNY. Makes me just a little bit homesick, even after all these years.
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Yes, Scott, these days here can’t be duplicated anywhere else. 🙂 We miss you, too.
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Wow, that looks like a lot of fun Mark. Personally I think it is good when partners get a break from each other to be with their friends occasionally – like Karen and her friends get-a-way to Alexandria Bay. Some folks don’t see it that way, I guess it is personal preference.
Your picnic looks delightful – awesome collection of yummy food. Nothing like visiting with good friends for an afternoon of cheer.
Great pictures Mark. Fun people and times.
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The getaway is good, I agree, Paul, done the right way it builds the love. 🙂
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What a lovely day!
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I’m stlll stuffed from all the food, Vonita. 🙂
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I would be too! Actually I am, because I was invited on a project lunch today!
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Yay for work-provided food, Vonita. 😉
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It looks like a wonderful day with great friends!
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Yes, indeed, Merril. I saw why they love their getaway so much. 🙂
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